Holiday Inspiration

I am a secret shopaholic, and now that Halloween is past us, it seems that everyone is gearing up for the holidays.  I received roughly 30 emails today about sales, holiday trends, and festive accessories that really got me thinking.  Not that I have plans for new years, but isn’t this the most darling outfit to ring in the new year??

1. Tuxedo Jacket BCBG via ShopStyle

2. ADORABLE sparkly cocktail dress Adrianna Papell for Nordstrom
3. Disco ball drop earrings – VERY Times Square ball drop, Kate Spade
4. How cute is this “box of chocolates” clutch, Kate Spade
5. Chocolate gems to match the purse, another Kate Spade winner
6. Strappy sandles with a gladiator twist sex everything up, Bloomingdales

EUREKA! The PERFECT Dress

So I am pretty obsessed with weddings in general, and I have a very specific image of what I envision my mother wearing as I walk down the aisle.  While the hours I’ve spent daydreaming are rather embarrassing to admit, I stumbled across this dress on Nordstrom’s site while getting in early on the hot NYE dresses, and couldn’t resist posting it.

My mom is the ultimate lady – I think my sister and I have inherited her most prissy, lady-like qualities which is why I was always the last one picked for any group sport in school, and why I am so meticulous about my own clothing.  There are certain stories that stand out in my mind about her, and one of the ones we heard over and over as little girls, was about how her mother (our grandmother) would put her on the train in the summers to send her back to stay with her cousins in New Mexico.  Because it was the 1950’s, and travel was expensive and “fancy”, my mom would get dressed in her party dress, tights, mary-janes, and little white gloves to make the journey. She’d get off the train, greeted by her cousins who were dirty, shoeless, and fresh off the farm, and they’d tease her for being the miss priss from the big city.

To think of that scene makes me smile, and I always envision my mother as this woman who can do anything and everything flawlessly.  The perfect housewife, the ultra mom, the gourmet cook, and master entertainer, who can make a party out of a bottle of wine and some dried pasta.

This dress is the ultimate dress for the ultimate “lady”.  The graceful back, full skirt, and boat neck on this dress are so lovely – it’s so perfect… I almost want to buy it right now for my “someday” wedding!

This dress is also super lady-like.  It totally reminds me of the dress Diane Lane wears in “Under the Tuscan Sun” – a personal all time favorite… and super pretty and classic.

Beautiful… but Timeless?

My best friend Kira is single (and ready to mingle), but like me, she is SUCH a sucker for weddings.

We both cruise StyleMePretty daily, post inspiration boards, and DVR Say Yes to the Dress.  She is convinced that this Amsale dress is THE ONE.  I have to admit, it is gorgeous.  The detail is amazing, the skirt really makes a statement… but that begs the question, will you still like that statement 30 years from now?

For me, while I loved it on the runway, and I love it now, I think it would be something that ultimately I would end up thinking was dated.  I wonder, even 10 years from now, will we look back and go, wow that was soooo 2011.  My mother looked beautiful on her wedding day, but her look was definitely ’70’s.  My dad kept encouraging my sister to get a dress “like mom’s” when she got married earlier this year, so maybe it’s ok if it looks dated.  Maybe no matter what you get, styles will inevitably change, bridal trends will continue to evolve, and you will still reflect the year you got married.

More variations of this ruffled look

Madewell? Who Knew?!

This brand is everywhere!  I have been seeing Madewell clothing featured in oodles of magazines and blogs this fall, and decided to do some investigative work.
I am the quintessential girly girl, and I love everything to do with dressing up, HOWEVER, as I get into my late twenties, I have grown an equal fondness for comfy yet stylish clothes.  Madewell has been around for years – since 1937 – and in all those years, they have apparently learned a thing or two about easy to wear, classic clothing.  Not only are there great classic jeans, button downs, and blouses, there are cute dresses, coats, and dressy shorts.  The colors are muted, and patterns lady like, which is such a relief after the much raved about color blocking trend of the spring and summer.  Turns out, unless it’s Valentino, Gucci, or Prabal Gurung, it looks cheap and tacky… a la Forever 21 gone oh so wrong.
It also doesn’t hurt that the model is painfully beautiful…
Some favorites from the site:

The Bird’s Eye Pullover is a great fall sweater.  In San Francisco, Fall is our “Summer” so this would be a great addition for layering… a staple here.  It’s light enough that it won’t be stifling once the sun peeks through, but heavy enough that it will keep the chill out once the fog starts to roll back in…
A great trouser is hard to come by, and I am loving these in the brown – very fall, and very flattering with the long straight leg.  I’d aim to get them extra long becuase I am loving how they cover the shoe – wear a platform to even further elongate the leg – tre chic.